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• KEYNOTES • Training • Consulting • Executive Coaching •





From 90-minute keynotes, to half-day or full-day workshops, to multi-day or multi-year ongoing training contracts, Dr. Mendes delivers research-based strategies and methods in an engaging and entertaining way. Every training is customized to the client's needs.

Below are some topic ideas.




Leadership Topics



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• Empty the Cup...Before You Fill it Up©

• Reflective and Directive Coaching Skills


• Succeeding in Difficult Conversations


• Take this Job and...LOVE it!

Tools to Thrive at Work


• The Art & Science of Emotional Intelligence


• Mindful Leadership


• Leading & Developing

High Performing Teams


(MORE TOPICS & DESCRIPTIONS BELOW)

Empty the Cup...Before You Fill it Up©

• Reflective and Directive Coaching Skills


• Succeeding in Difficult Conversations


• Take this Job and...LOVE it!

Tools to Thrive at Work


• The Art & Science of Emotional Intelligence


• Mindful Leadership


• Leading & Developing

High Performing Teams


(MORE TOPICS & DESCRIPTIONS BELOW)



Educator Topics



• Take this Job and LOVE it!

Tools to Thrive at Work


• "You Can't Make Me!"

Working with Resistant Students


• Mindfulness & Emotional Intelligence
for Teachers

• Empty the Cup...Before You Fill it Up©


• Engage 4 Learning: How to Engage

4 Major Brain Systems


• Emotions Matter in the Classsroom


(MORE TOPICS & DESCRIPTIONS BELOW)



SOME LEADERSHIP Topic descriptions





•Empty the Cup…Before you Fill it Up©

There is an invisible influence at every meeting you conduct or training you provide. It is the mental and emotional stuff that participants bring. Research says that when we give expression to this stuff, the working mind is free to be more effective. Employees often bring "full cups" to meetings which include past experiences, concerns, distractions, to-do lists, an important appointment later that day, a recent difficult conversation, a text message that is distracting them, a co-worker who was inconsiderate to them, etc. All or any of this may impact the success of your meeting, training, or gathering. This session will show you ways to Empty the Cup…Before you Fill it Up© (based on brain research and emotional intelligence theory).


•Reflective and Directive Coaching Skills

This coaching program will provide participants with the necessary tools to conduct reflective coaching conversations with all staff and stakeholders. Participants will become skilled in using the Dynamic Coaching Model through Theory, Modeling, Rehearsal, and Feedback. Using protocols for a reflective supervision dialogue, participants will be able to apply these conversation tools to providing meaningful feedback, setting priorities, and leading meetings. The skills will also apply to disciplinary conversations, collaboration, facilitation, mentoring, employee development, and succession planning. Participants will learn how to blend reflective and directive techniques to adjust to all levels of employee experience.


•Succeeding in Difficult Conversations

Many business situations challenge even the most experienced and skillful communicator. Whether you are facing a difficult conversation with a stakeholder, colleague or employee, how you handle these conversations can determine your success or failure. Take the skills learned in this course and start applying them immediately for the confidence and camaraderie that gets you the results you need to succeed.

Also taught at UCSD Rady School of Management as part of their open enrollment.


•Take this Job and…LOVE it! Tools to Thrive at Work

This keynote acknowledges the efforts of all employees and highlights the importance of the work they do each day! Participants leave with renewed hope and motivation to continue their mission. The keynote centers on the role of realistic optimism and success principles. Using humor, research, and several practical models, participants will leave with simple and effective tools to increase their resilience and continue their important work. Have fun and leave energized!


•The Art and Science of Emotional Intelligence

Do you think emotions don’t belong in the workplace? Whether we want them there or not, emotions play a principal role in our workplace satisfaction. The primary reason employees leave a company is because of the relationship with their boss. This Emotional Intelligence course focuses on both the art and science of emotional intelligence. Participants will learn the latest research and scientific advances in the area, as well as, practice techniques to engage in active listening, connect to their own emotions, and de-stress before a big event. The course combines theory with practice, empowering participants to take the skills learned in the course and apply them immediately to the real world.

Also taught at UCSD Rady School of Management as part of their open enrollment.


•Mindful Leadership

This interactive training will explore effective mindfulness leadership principles and participation strategies to use in groups. Decision-making models will be examined and discussed. Participants will learn dynamics of high performing groups, hidden factors of adult motivation, steps to problem solving, common models of decision-making, understanding decision fatigue, shifting from facilitator to participant in a group, communication/conflict styles, and norms for collaboration.





•Communicating at Work: Dynamic Connecting & Collaborating
Participants will learn how to blend directive with reflective approaches to adjust to all levels of employee experience. Introduce yourself to the art of reflective coaching and reduce dependent and resistant behavior in those you lead and teach. The questions we use direct thinking—and whoever is asking the questions is leading the direction of the conversations. Here are a few questions to consider: when communicating among different people, do you address the task first or the relationship? when should you be direct or in-direct? what are the best ways to deliver and elicit feedback? The tools learned in this course will make an immediate impact in your communication at work. Learn the nuances involved in verbal and non-verbal communication. Understand how to manage and use the underlying emotions involved in influence. Gain emotional intelligence skills to use during interpersonal transactions. Help those you lead become more reflective and thoughtful in decision-making. This training is an engaging blend of research and practical applications with practice time.
Also taught at UCSD Rady School of Management as part of their open enrollment: link for details.

•Resiliency During Times of Change
In this session, participants will learn how to give and receive feedback that leads to growth, ways to engage in challenging conversations on difficult topics, the five building blocks of high performing teams, how to use emotional intelligence to reduce stress and thrive in changing environments, keys to positive communication, and directive and reflective communication strategies that lead to greater trust and accountability. Participants will leave energized and hopeful, armed with ready-to-use strategies to enhance communication and boost work relationships.

•Leading & Developing High Performing Teams
Emotions are contagious. It starts with the leader at the top: your state, your expectations, your structures, your emotional regulation and how you set the context. Today's teams must do more with less. High performing teams need members with technical competency and intelligence—but that is not enough. Motivation, engagement and productivity happens through effective collaboration based on team dynamics. On a team, the whole is never the sum of its parts, but is greater or lesser depending on how well the individuals work together. The leader has a huge impact on the emotional state of the team and its ability to work together. Who the leader is, and how the leader is presented on a consistent basis, can have dramatic effect on leading the team through change, fostering creativity, innovation, and job satisfaction. Learn key facilitation skills that will engage your team. Never have a boring meeting again.
Also taught at UCSD Rady School of Management as part of their open enrollment.

•Coaching and Mentoring: Bringing Out the Best in Others
Do you supervise or mentor employees? Do you want your employees to think more, take greater ownership, and solve their own problems? Do you want to develop employees, improve performance, increase engagement, or correct behavior? Stop creating over-dependence on you for the answers and under-responsibility on them for problems that arise. This training will provide all managers and supervisors with the tools to effectively conduct performance enhancement discussions. Team leaders will gain facilitation skills to improve team interactions. Whether you are in a mentoring role, a direct manager or supervisor, or the organizational leader, you will learn 6 basic coaching skills to move your people forward and help you to: hold reflective conversations that move people to insight and change facilitate team interactions craft questions that elicit an individual's internal resources reduce defensiveness in conversations Increase accountability Increase rapport, and Increase influence.

Also taught at UCSD Rady School of Management as part of their open enrollment.



" Ernie did a phenomenal job in helping our team learn to work together more productively and constructively. His approachable manner and knowledgeable techniques enabled team members to open up and communicate freely, discuss specifics on how to work better together, and develop concrete agreement on how to best work together going forward. Ernie's follow-up sessions provided reinforcement on what we had learned in earlier sessions. Our department is a much more effective team thanks to Ernie. "



-Information Technology Manager





SOME Educator
Topic descriptions



•Take this Job and…LOVE it! Tools to Thrive at Work
This keynote acknowledges the efforts of educators and highlights the importance of the work they do each day! Participants leave with renewed hope and motivation to continue their mission. The keynote centers on the role of realistic optimism and success principles for those in the education profession. Using humor, research, and several practical models, participants will leave with simple and effective tools to increase their resilience and continue their important work. Have fun and leave energized!

•“You Can’t Make Me!” Working with Resistant Students
Manage the oppositional/defiant learner the unmotivated learner and the gifted learner. Understand the causes of misbehavior, resistance and oppositional behaviors of students and how to reduce and diffuse those effectively. Learn how to address the top 8 reasons for lack of motivation in students. Understand the often-misunderstood characteristics of the gifted learner, and how to engage them.

•Mindfulness & Emotional Intelligence for Teachers
A look at the current research on mindfulness practices and their positive effects for the classroom teacher and for students. Experience mindfulness as a tool to increase one’s emotional intelligence, reduce stress, and create a more peaceful classroom. Teachers who effectively manage their cognitive-emotional states get better results with the students they are teaching. Participants will gain tools to regulate mind-body states more effectively and efficiently, resulting in reduced stress. Participants will practice ideas that they can use immediately.

•Empty the Cup…Before you Fill it Up©
How to improve classroom management, motivation and engagement through valuing the importance of connections. Effective teaching and learning practices are experienced using creative ways to change learner states, and through mindful pacing.



•Engage 4 Learning: How to Engage 4 Major Brain Systems
Increase attention, focus, and content recall. Understand how to use 4 major brain systems to boost thinking, memory and understanding to reset emotional states for optimal learning and to reach the oppositional, gifted and unmotivated learners. Participants will also learn the latest research on how the adolescent brain best learns and numerous review strategies.

•Dynamic Coaching: A Practice-Based Approach to Reflective Conversation
This training will provide administrators, teachers, coaches, and others, with the necessary tools to conduct reflective coaching conversations with each other regarding instructional practice. Participants will become skilled in using a blended model of coaching (reflection & direction) with others in the workplace. Using Theory, Modeling, Rehearsal, and Feedback, participants will gain the necessary tools to master the coaching process and to establish collaborative partnerships. The ultimate goal is improving instruction for all students.

•Emotions Matter in the Classroom
This interactive session is about understanding the science and practical applications of Emotional Intelligence. Emotionally Intelligent classrooms have greater academic performance, a stronger sense of community, higher levels of engagement, and fewer behavior problems. Teachers with high emotional intelligence experience more positive emotions, have better relationships, enjoy teaching more, and are less stressed. Dr. Ernie Mendes was one of the early researchers in the field of Emotional Intelligence (EI) who studied the relationship between EI and occupational burnout in educators



" Dear Ernie, Thank you again for joining us at our EISS Research Institute. Your featured presentation on ‘Take This Job and...LOVE it! Using Emotional Intelligence to Thrive in Challenging Times’ was the highlight of the conference! It was filled with practical applications which could be used immediately for personal and professional understandings and support along with applications within the classroom. As one participant stated, ‘Off the charts! WOW--both personally & professionally.’ "



-Dr. Cathy Wietstock, Ed.D., Program Director, Early Intervention for School Success



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